I Wish I Wasn't
When is a woman 'too old' to be fooling around... too old for 'psuedo-relationships' (you know... the parang kami pero hindi stage)... too old to be just having fun and enjoy being single?

Honestly, I believe that a woman in her mid-20's should have the time of her life. Experience what it has to offer to the fullest! But once she hits the age where 30's is just a stone throw away, and menopause is sort of happening in the 'next 10 years or less'... she better get a hold of herself, stop and think... "Where is my life heading? Will I be a spinster [still a bitch nonetheless...] or do I actually want to settle down, get married?!"

Well, if she chooses the latter, she better prepare herself for it.

How? Well, first... open herself to real relationships. Never settle for sex. Stay away from the temptations of involving herself to married men or already-in-a-relationship kind of men. There already so many mediocre things in this world, and love shouldn't be one of them.

Next, circulate... with the right people. How can she find decent guys if she hangs out with gays in super gay places? Or goes with her married guy 'friend' for a drink? Let's get real...

Losing weight should also be part of preparing herself. But if that's too much to ask for right now... fine. Other guys are okay with girls who are the 'more-to-love' body type anyway. On the second thought, guys I know who love girls like that are either married or divorced... hmmm... okay forget about it being okay. Losing weight should be on top of her list.

Time is running. And it is running fast.

Finding Mr. Right in the world of Mr. Maybe is a difficult thing. But she should not fret... never settle for anything less than mad, passionate love.

Here's the song I'm listening to while writing this post.

I wish I wasn't in love with you
So you couldn't hurt me
It just ain't fair the way you treat me
No you don't deserve me
Wasted my time thinking bout you
and you ain't never gone change
I wasn't in love with you
so I wouldn't feel this way

When you touch me my heart melts
Everything you did wrong I forget
So you play me & take advantage
Of the love that I feel for you
Why you wanna hurt me so bad
I believed in you that's why I'm so mad
now I'm drowning in disappointment,
and it's hard for me to even look at you


...I've always been a sucker for romance
And before you know it, I concede
You're all over me
Oh no here I go again
I wish I wasn't in love with you
So you couldn't hurt me...

blah blah by LaraGirl @ 11:40 AM
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